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A neighbourhood party

set up feteIt was around 9 o'clock on a lovely sunny evening at the end of May when four young Singaporeans appeared at the end of the lane, dragging heavy suitcases and dodging the potholes in the gravel.  It was an unusual sight as 40 or so of us were enjoying an outdoor aperitif.  Our lane is not made for suitcase dragging – it's barely made for 4 wheel-drive cars – and nobody ever attempts to navigate it on foot with large luggage.  That was from our point of view.  As from these strangers' point of view, I imagine they didn't expect quite such a public arrival at Lou Messugo nor so much going on in a quiet village street.  Yes, these were the latest guests turning up several hours late and without their car right in the middle of the annual neighbourhood street party! 

Thirteen years ago, in 1999, a man named Atanase Périfan created the first neighbourhood party "La Fête des Voisins" in his local district in Paris.  His plan was to bring neighbours together in a "spirit of conviviality and solidarity".  It was an immediate success and attracted the support of Mairies (town halls) across the country.  The idea is for neighbourhoods to hold street parties, anything from a simple aperitif to a sit-down meal to get to know one another and reduce isolation.  Everyone brings a contribution, streets are closed off, long tables put together, tablecloths spread out and the party begins.  Last year 7 million French in 1200 towns participated and having spread internationally (World Neighbours Day) it now takes place in 33 countries.  This year the newest to join the party is the Democratic Republic of Congo. It has become an integral part of the calendar in France and some would say a little too commercial (it is now heavily sponsored by such giants as Nutella and even the name "La Fête des Voisins" has become a trademark!)  The date is always set for the last Friday in May (though this year it's the 1st of June, hmmmm).

lads at feteI'm not here to be political or critical. I enjoy it taken on face value and have organised our local party ever since we moved into Lou Messugo; this will be the 3rd year.  There are 10 houses in the domaine, 50-60 people and the bit I like the best, 7 nationalities.  We're a melting pot of different cultures and traditions which are reflected in the dishes and drinks we prepare.  La Fête is very popular in our village with 18 registered gatherings this year at which our Mayor puts in an appearance and has a drink at each and every one (French village Mayors have a tough life!)

But let's get back to the Singaporeans.  I'd been expecting them to arrive by car mid afternoon and had sent them driving directions.  The domaine is new and doesn't feature on GPS systems so it's pretty hard to find without detailed instructions.  Due to a mix-up at the rental company Wanda and her friends didn't get a hire car and amazingly found their way by public transport from Nice Central train station without a word of French between them nor a phone call for help from me all the way to the house – and the party!  So they spent their first night in France eating paella and drinking rosé with a bunch of French, Belgians, Colombians, Peruvians, Australians, Austrians and English.  I bet they didn't expect that and who knows, perhaps they'll be inspired to make Singapore the 34th country to join in the neighbourhood party.

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  • reellio
    reellio Friday, 01 June 2012


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    Rin Friday, 14 September 2012

    Blimey, a few months late in reading this comment t still sounding like a blast!

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    Delia @ Blog Formatting Sunday, 21 April 2013

    What a great story, Phoebe! You seem to have had lots of fun :)

  • Rosie @ Children Friendly Holidays
    Rosie @ Children Friendly Holidays Sunday, 21 April 2013

    That's a great story and well dome those Singaporeans! I hadn't realised "La Fête des Voisins" was quite such a recent - or large - thing. We must try and do something this year ... it falls very close to Ben's' birthday so I feel a France-British party might be in order!

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    Phoebe Saturday, 05 October 2013

    Definitely sounds like a plan Rosie! Report back next year if you do have a party, won't you?

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